When I meet you partners in person there's a unique beauty in each one of you that truly reflects the glory of our Creator. Yet, you tell me of nights wracked with cries of "Lord, why did You make me this way?" I'm constantly amazed how many of you are in bondage to thoughts about being physically unattractive.

One young woman asked me in utter despair, "Why do all men want the 'Perfect 10?' If you're anything less they won't even look at you."

This is not true. But, just as we clothe ourselves in the physical realm, we put on spiritual "clothing" as well. The Bible describes these "garments" as being attitudes of praise, righteousness, joy, love, wisdom, etc. People really do sense what we "wear" spiritually, and respond to it. If we choose to wear rags of rejection, bitterness, inferiority, negativity or defensiveness, they respond to that, too.

Listen to a description of what Christ's bride will wear to meet her King! "The king is enthralled by your beauty...All glorious is the princess within...her gown is interwoven with gold. In embroidered garments she is led to the king...They are led in with joy and gladness..." (Psalm 45:11, 13-15, NIV).

There is no such thing as an ugly person - only ugly thoughts. Let others see Jesus in your eyes and God's love in your heart, and they will soon be saying, "How did God make you this way?"

Heavenly Father, take away the drabness, listlessness and discontent in my spirit. Clothe me with Your love so I will sparkle like a jewel. May my face shine with Your radiance; may my garments be those of Your meekness, gentleness, righteousness and praise. Thank you for the glorious work of restoration You are doing within me, and for the fact that it is beginning to shine through. In Jesus' Name, Amen.