Losing a loved one to death is a wrenching, bewildering, and shattering shock to body, mind and spirit. It carries with it the question, "Why, Lord, why?"

Healing comes only by the touch of God and time working together in orchestrated comfort—sometimes, slowly.

Memories are bittersweet; the love in life was full of joy. But now in death, there is suffering that breaks the heart. Loving someone exacts its price—credits and debits both.

"Take heart, dear mourning one...Blessed are those who mourn: for they shall be comforted" (Matthew 5:4).

To mourn and to be blessed seem such an incredible combination—the greatest of pains and the greatest of joy—yet in this Scripture they are divinely joined. The Holy Spirit, our promised Comforter, brings comfort on the wings of His sweet Dove even as we mourn.

This promise of comfort is not an empty promise. It holds a hope that mourning does not seem to bring. Although it takes time to ease the pain of separation, that time will pass with a comfort from above if you lean on Him. Cast aside the bonds of grief, put your loved one in God's caring hands, and receive your comfort now in this night valley. His comfort passes all understanding. His comfort gives you life, even in the face of death.

Father, I need You, tonight especially. I give my grief to You for healing. Ease my pain with Your promised comfort. I thank You for the sweet memories of this lost loved one. Let the poignant beauty of these memories help erase the loneliness of my loss. Touch me tonight, dear Father, and give me strength to face tomorrow. In Jesus' Name, Amen.